Sex with my teacher.
(Sex Education)
My name is Gloria and I was 15 years old as at the time of this incident. I was staying with someone who took me as a house help, though they gave me the opportunity of going to school.
Every morning I had to wake up early, clean the house, help my madam in the kitchen, help in preparing her children for school, and also run errands after school.
It was not an easy task but I had no choice. I was born into a poor family where we had to struggle to eat, so being here with my madam and oga was a blessing and a relief to my parents.
My oga and madam were nice to me but the house chores given to me got me tired most of the time. It was way tedious than what someone of my age could do and I was not actually free with them as a result of that I found it really difficult to tell them about anything bothering me and this made me crave for someone to talk to.
At my school, we had more of male teachers than female teachers and most of our female teachers were not friendly, they only focused on teaching, assignments, flogging etc.
I was in Ss1 class and there was this particular male teacher who was really caring, he liked sending me on errands at school and he liked buying things for me, I became too close to him that I tell him almost everything, he was the reason I enjoyed going to school.
One day after school,he told me to come see his place since I was his friend and he was like an uncle to me.
I accepted since I had no negative expectations of him.
He took me to his house at about 1pm and school was to close by 2pm, he did that so that I could be able to go back to my oga’s house on time.
At his house, he gave me drink and asked me to sit on his legs that he wanted us to talk like good friends.
I sat on his legs and he was telling me all the beautiful things in the world, I felt it was beautiful because it was coming from a mature mind. I noticed his hands were going through my laps, opening my skirt to the point of touching my pants.
I was uncomfortable, I called him uncle, he removed his hands and was still talking to me, he was acting like he wasn’t aware of where his hand was going.
He asked me to show him my breast, I didn’t because I was not cormfortable with it. At this point I told him that the time was almost 2pm and I needed to go home so that my madam will not start looking for me.
He said that’s true and asked me to hug him and kiss him, I told him I couldn’t kiss him that it wasn’t right but he said it’s a way of telling someone you really care and appreciate them, his words were convincing, that I believed that it was not a bad thing after all. I accepted, I hugged him and kissed him, it was during the kissing that he held me and carried me up to his bed, and his strength was more than mine,I was screaming and crying for help but no one came ,he disvirgined me.
I was in tears, I couldn’t walk, he was begging me and he helped me to wash myself and was telling me that he really care,that I should not tell my oga, I stayed for awhile because I couldn’t walk.
When I got home, my madam asked me what kept me at school, I lied to her saying that my teacher kept us late to finish up a note. They were not observant about my abnormal steps or my red eyes or my sad face. She asked me to help her prepare food in the kitchen which I did.
The next day I was scared of going to school, but I couldn’t skip because my madam will ask questions. When I got to school, I avoided my teacher like a plague, I was full of many thoughts, I regretted going to his house,I hated him and I couldn’t help myself.
If I had any knowledge on how sexual abuse and rape occured I wouldn’t have fallen a victim of this, I was living a life of regret.
It was when I turned 19 years old, that I was fortunate enough to meet a Counselor from Confidants Solace Zone that I started having a rethink about men and the pieces of my life are coming back to a positive shape.
Sex Education is really important and should be taught in schools and every school needs a counselor.
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